The Weight of Motherhood: Exploring 'Surface Pressure' from Encanto

The Power of Lyrics: Decoding "Surface Pressure"

Every so often, a song comes along that resonates with our experiences in unexpected ways. In the animated film Encanto, the song "Surface Pressure" captivates audiences with its catchy tune and illustrative lyrics. But beneath its playful melody lies a profound interpretation that many mothers can relate to. Let’s dive into the depths of "Surface Pressure" and discover its poignant connection to the challenges and emotions of motherhood.

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“Who am I if I can't carry it all?" - A Reflection on Mom Guilt

In the oh-so relatable lyrics of "Surface Pressure," we encounter the thought-provoking line, "Who am I if I can't carry it all?" These words resonate deeply with mothers who often find themselves grappling with mom guilt—the overwhelming feeling that they should be able to handle everything effortlessly. As a working mom who fulfills the role of the “primary caregiver,” taking care of children's appointments, daycare, school, and tending to their needs when they're sick, the weight of responsibilities can feel unrelenting.

“I’m so strong, but I’m so tired.”

Balancing Act: Navigating Work, Childcare, and Self-Care

Motherhood is a juggling act where we strive to excel in every aspect of our lives while tending to the needs of our little ones. The lyrics of "Surface Pressure" capture the essence of this struggle, highlighting the pressure to keep up with work demands, maintain a well-kept household, and take care of ourselves amidst it all. It's a balancing act that often leaves us questioning our capabilities and identity.

Understanding the Struggles: "I'm so strong, I'm so strong, but I'm so tired"

The song's powerful line, "I'm so strong, I'm so strong, but I'm so tired," echoes the exhaustion many mothers face as they navigate the relentless demands of daily life. It serves as a reminder that it's okay to feel weary (because honestly, we all do), that our strength should not be measured solely by how much we can carry. It's a call to acknowledge our limitations and seek support when needed, understanding that asking for help is not a sign of weakness but a testament to our resilience and self-awareness.

The Exhaustion of Motherhood: Embracing Vulnerability

Through the lens of "Surface Pressure," we uncover a universal truth about motherhood—it's an ever-evolving journey of self-discovery and growth. Just as the song's protagonist in Encanto learns to embrace her basic needs and let go of societal expectations, mothers too can find solace in releasing the need to be perfect and allowing their true selves to shine. It's about recognizing that we are more than our ability to carry it all and embracing the beauty of imperfection.

Seeking Support: Redefining Strength in Asking for Help

Female Superhero Holding a Rope - Symbolizing the Strength of Motherhood

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As we conclude our exploration of "Surface Pressure" and its connection to motherhood, let the lyrics serve as a reminder that you are not alone in your experiences. It's normal to feel overwhelmed and exhausted at times, but you are doing an incredible job. Embrace your strengths, seek support when needed, and remember that it's okay to prioritize self-care (Your kids will be okay if you leave them alone for 10 minutes to regroup in the other room! Your partner will be okay if you leave them alone with the kids for your own recharge time!). Release the surface pressure and embrace the authentic, imperfect, and extraordinary mother that you are.

Celebrating Imperfections: Finding Strength and Joy in the Depths of Motherhood

Remember that you are enough, just as you are. Embrace the joys and challenges of motherhood, and know that your love and dedication make a profound impact on your children's lives. Keep shining your light, for you are a remarkable force of love and strength.

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Watch and listen here!

Music video by Jessica Darrow performing Surface Pressure (From "Encanto"). © 2021 Walt Disney Records

 

SN Newton is a mother, artist at Wished Upon Studio, and project manager/solutions tech with The Collab Team.

She is a proud Dis-nerd and Harry Potter lover, and loves to over-analyze plot points and metaphors within children’s movies and content.

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